Todd Merkow sits down with Crystalrae States — founder and owner of Boilermaker Softball Club in Pennsylvania, former Division II catcher and head coach, master's-level exercise and sport science professional, and mother of three young kids — for a wide-ranging conversation about what it actually looks like to build a female-first youth sports organization from scratch, why development and winning are not the same thing, and what happens when you stop being afraid of the tough conversations.

Todd Merkow sits down with Skye Eddy — former Division I goalkeeper at UMass and George Mason (Final Four), briefly professional in Italy, All-American, US Soccer coach educator, founder of SoccerParenting.com and The Sideline Project, and mother of two — for a conversation that Todd calls the one he wishes he'd had when his daughters were still playing. Skye is a Title IX baby who grew up as the game was exploding, went on to coach at the national team programming level, and then discovered, when her daughter Callie started playing in a paid club environment, that being a former professional player and an active high-level coach did not make her a good sports parent. That gap — between knowing the game and knowing how to show up for your child — is what SoccerParenting.com was built to close.

Todd Merkow sits down with Joel Votaw — Arizona Soccer Association State Referee Administrator, veteran soccer referee with experience at every level of the game, sports parent of three, and a man who has spent the last 14 years watching youth sports from the one vantage point most parents never consider: the middle of the field. Joel grew up in Southern California as a multi-sport kid — swimming, water polo, soccer, skateboarding, the full SoCal menu — before life got busy, he got married young, and sports faded out. He came back to refereeing when his oldest son was 12, partly to make some extra money, mostly to find a way to spend more time around the game his family had fallen into. He never left.

Todd Merkow sits down with Dr. Eric Dean — Medical Director for Sports Medicine at HonorHealth, former Division I football player at the University of Arizona, team physician for the San Francisco Giants and multiple professional sports organizations, Medical Director for Scottsdale Unified School District Athletics since 2009, and father of two daughters who have both completed their youth sports journey. Dr. Dean has been practicing sports medicine in the Valley for nearly 25 years, and what he has watched happen to young athletes' bodies over that time is, in his own words, insane.

Todd Merkow sits down with Christian Lavers — founder and president of the ECNL (Elite Clubs National League), former Director of Coaching and Methodology at FC Wisconsin, University of Wisconsin finance and soccer alumnus, holder of both an MBA and a law degree, and father of four young children ages four through eight. The ECNL has grown from 40 clubs and roughly 2,000 players at its founding in 2009 to more than 120,000 players across both genders today, making it one of the most significant structural forces in American youth soccer. Christian is also the host of the ECNL podcast Breaking the Line, which Todd recommends without hesitation to any sports parent — soccer or otherwise.

Todd Merkow sits down with Liz Masakayan — Santa Monica High School alumna, two-time NCAA national champion at UCLA (1984, 1985), Broderick Award winner for collegiate player of the year in 1985, UCLA Female Athlete of the Year in 1988, five-year Team USA member, Olympian at Seoul 1988, World Championship bronze medalist in Beijing, and one of the most decorated careers in the history of American volleyball. On the pro beach side: 47 tour career wins, 61 finals appearances, a 13-year pro career, WPVA World Champion in 1991, FIVB World Champion in 1994 (with Most Outstanding Player honors), and a 1999 World Championship bronze. As a coach she led teams to Olympic bronze in Athens 2004 and a fifth-place finish in Beijing 2008. She was inducted into the UCLA Hall of Fame in 1996. Todd also notes she should be in the Santa Monica High School Hall of Fame — if one existed.

Todd Merkow sits down with Barry Buetel — longtime sports broadcaster and executive, founding broadcast host for Fox Sports Arizona's Emmy-winning Diamondbacks poolside show, former on-air host for professional teams across the NFL, MLB, NHL, and NBA, son of a legendary Minnesota sports broadcaster, and most importantly, husband to Shannon and father of three daughters: Brittany, Lauren, and Kate. All three played soccer. Barry is one of Todd's oldest friends — they met in 1996 when they were both single guys helping launch Fox Sports Arizona, attended each other's weddings, and spent years on the same sidelines watching their daughters play together. This episode is the one where two guys who should have known better sit down and admit they didn't.

Linda Flanagan returns to Be Valiant — the first guest to come back twice — for a wide-ranging conversation with Todd Merkow about what is still working in youth sports, what is broken, and why parents need to understand the business hierarchy they are navigating before they can protect what matters most. Linda is a former athlete, youth and high school coach, sports parent, journalist, and author of Take Back the Game: How Money and Mania Are Ruining Kids Sports and Why It Matters. This episode picks up where Episode 8 left off and goes further.