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Be Valiant Podcast Episodes

Featured Series

Sit Down With the Daughters

Todd Merkow sits down with his two daughters — Madison and Sydney — across three conversations that trace the full arc of what youth sports can give, take, and leave behind.

The Proctor Family Series

A three-part series exploring youth sports, identity, injury, and resilience through the eyes of one family — Jeff, Lisa, and Will Proctor.

Coaching

October 22, 2025

From Indoor to the Sand: Finding Your Position, Your Sport & Yourself

Madison Merkow

In Episode 2 of Be Valiant, Todd Merkow sits down with his oldest daughter Madison — a three-sport high school athlete, collegiate beach volleyball player at MiraCosta College, student athletic trainer for the ASU football program, and now an entrepreneur with her own fitness and wellness company, Lyt Active. What unfolds is a conversation about a young athlete who spent years being shuffled between positions, misread by coaches, and playing through injuries she probably should have sat out — until she found the one version of her sport that finally made sense.

CoachingParent EducationVolleyballInjuries & RecoveryMental HealthMulti-Sport AthletesIdentity & Identity LossYouth Athletes
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October 29, 2025

The Real Cost of Youth Sports: One Athlete's Journey Through Injury, Identity & Finding Herself

Sydney Merkow

In one of the most personal and emotionally raw episodes of Be Valiant, host Todd Merkow sits down with his youngest daughter Sydney — a three-time Arizona high school state soccer champion, ASU psychology graduate, and now a full-time Pilates instructor — to unpack the full arc of her youth sports journey. What begins as a story of joy, early success, and competitive fire quickly reveals the hidden costs that so many young athletes carry silently for years.

Mental HealthParent EducationIdentity & Identity LossCoachingInjuries & RecoveryYouth Athletes
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November 5, 2025

The Sports Parent Who Got It Right: Perspective, Culture & Letting Kids Lead

Mike Strati

In Episode 4 of Be Valiant, Todd Merkow sits down with one of his oldest friends in youth sports — Mike Strati, a former collegiate and semi-professional soccer player at the University of New Mexico and the New Mexico Chili's of the USL, a coach with nearly 25 years of experience at the youth, high school, and collegiate levels, and the founder of Strategic Alliance, a company that uses personality analytics to help businesses build better teams. Todd opens the episode by admitting something he has said privately for years: he envied Mike throughout the youth sports journey. This conversation is about why.

CoachingParent EducationMulti-Sport AthletesClub SportsYouth Sports CultureYouth AthletesBoys vs GirlsEarly Specialization
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November 12, 2025

The Journalist, the Dad & the Dugout: A USA Today Columnist on What Youth Sports Gets Wrong

Steve Borelli

In Episode 5 of Be Valiant, Todd Merkow sits down with Steve Borelli — sports special editions editor at USA Today, weekly youth sports columnist, Georgetown English graduate, and the man his readers know simply as Coach Steve. Steve has spent decades coaching his two sons in baseball, basketball, and flag football, and since March 2023 has been writing a weekly column for USA Today that has become one of the most widely read and shared voices in the youth sports parenting space. Todd found him through a LinkedIn post and knew immediately: this is someone parents need to hear.

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November 26, 2025

The Dean of Arizona High School Sports: 40 Years of Watching Parents Get It Right — and Wrong

Kevin McCabe

In Episode 7 of Be Valiant, Todd Merkow sits down with Kevin McCabe — a man Todd has known for nearly 30 years, going back to their days together at Fox Sports Arizona. Kevin is the host of the Kevin McCabe Show on Arizona Sports 98.7, a weekly radio program that brings high school athletes and coaches into the studio to be celebrated, not analyzed. He has been covering Arizona prep sports for more than 40 years, starting in Flagstaff in 1981 and working his way through Tucson and eventually Phoenix, where he covered everything from the Suns to the World Series to Charles Barkley's Finals run — and kept coming back to high school sports every time, because that is where his heart has always been. He is known across the state simply as the Dean of Arizona High School Sports.

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December 10, 2025

The Hall of Fame Coach on Culture, Mental Health, and What It Really Takes to Raise an Athlete

Charli Turner Thorne

In Episode 9 of Be Valiant, Todd Merkow welcomes Charli Turner Thorne — Hall of Fame head coach of the Arizona State University women's basketball program for 25 years, former head coach at Northern Arizona University, Stanford graduate, two-time USA Basketball assistant coach, and gold medalist at the World University Games. She is nationally recognized for her emphasis on leadership, mental performance, and holistic athlete development, and she currently teaches an optimal performance class at ASU while serving on the Phoenix Mercury coaching staff. She and her husband Will raised three children, and the conversation moves fluidly between her decades of coaching experience and what it was actually like to be a sports parent on the other side of the sideline.

CoachingMental HealthYouth Sports CultureMulti-Sport AthletesParent EducationIdentity & Identity LossWomen in SportsCollege AthleticsCollege Recruiting
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December 17, 2025

The Author and Coach on Raising Empowered Athletes — and Getting Out of Their Way

Kirsten Jones

In Episode 10 of Be Valiant, Todd Merkow welcomes Kirsten Jones — Hall of Fame former Division I collegiate volleyball player at the College of William and Mary, 15-year Nike executive who held leadership roles in brand management, retail, and global marketing while working directly with elite athletes and teams around the world, author of Raising Empowered Athletes: A Youth Sports Parenting Guide for Raising Happy, Brave and Resilient Kids, host of the Raising Athletes with Kirsten Jones podcast, national speaker, workshop leader, and certified peak performance and leadership coach. She and her husband Evan — who played Division III basketball at Johns Hopkins and Division II at UC Davis before playing professionally in Europe — raised three children: CJ, Parker, and Kylie. Two of the three went on to play collegiately. The conversation is one of the most wide-ranging and practically useful in the series.

Parent EducationEmpowermentSelf-AdvocacyEarly SpecializationMental HealthYouth Sports CultureMulti-Sport AthletesIdentity & Identity LossCoaching
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January 14, 2026

Stay True to Who You Are

Jody Jackson

Todd Merkow sits down with Jody Jackson — longtime Fox Sports Arizona broadcaster, current Diamondbacks reporter, and sports mom of two — for a conversation that moves easily between the press box and the bleachers, between the professional world of sports media and the deeply personal world of raising a pitcher and a quarterback in the competitive youth sports landscape of the Phoenix metro.

Sports ParentingIdentity & Identity LossCollege RecruitingCoachingMental HealthMulti-Sport AthletesTransfer Portal
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February 18, 2026

Compassionate and Competitive

Crystalrae States

Todd Merkow sits down with Crystalrae States — founder and owner of Boilermaker Softball Club in Pennsylvania, former Division II catcher and head coach, master's-level exercise and sport science professional, and mother of three young kids — for a wide-ranging conversation about what it actually looks like to build a female-first youth sports organization from scratch, why development and winning are not the same thing, and what happens when you stop being afraid of the tough conversations.

Sports ParentingFemale AthletesClub SportsCoachingDevelopment vs. WinningMental HealthMulti-Sport AthletesYouth Sports Culture
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