A PARENT'S PERSPECTIVE
A sports chapter can change because of graduation, injury, a team decision, or a child’s own choice. Even a positive transition can bring a real sense of loss.
Parents can help by recognizing that sport may have provided structure, community, and identity—not simply a schedule.
Supporting the person beyond the athlete creates room for what comes next.
What sports parents should know
- Transitions out of sport can affect identity and belonging.
- An athlete is more than their role on a team.
- Listening and patience can matter when a sports chapter changes.
YOUR HAPPY MOMENT
Remind your child of one part of who they are that has nothing to do with their sport.
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Disclaimer
The Valiant Parent reflects Todd Merkow’s personal perspective as a former sports parent, including lessons learned and things he might approach differently looking back. It is intended to help parents think, ask questions and find trusted information—not to provide medical or mental health advice. When a child’s physical or emotional well-being is a concern, parents should seek guidance from an appropriate qualified professional.
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