A PARENT'S PERSPECTIVE
A sports journey is made of more than rankings, minutes, and results. It is also made of the moments that remind a child why they wanted to play.
Parents can notice and protect those moments: belonging with teammates, learning something new, laughing after practice, or feeling proud of effort.
A fuller picture of success can help families keep joy in view when sports becomes demanding.
What sports parents should know
- Positive moments give sport meaning beyond outcomes.
- Connection and belonging matter to young athletes.
- Families can actively notice what fills their child’s happy bucket.
YOUR HAPPY MOMENT
Ask your child to name one moment from this season that made them happy, then listen without adding an evaluation.
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Disclaimer
The Valiant Parent reflects Todd Merkow’s personal perspective as a former sports parent, including lessons learned and things he might approach differently looking back. It is intended to help parents think, ask questions and find trusted information—not to provide medical or mental health advice. When a child’s physical or emotional well-being is a concern, parents should seek guidance from an appropriate qualified professional.
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