THE VALIANT PARENT
Valiant Sports Society Social Media Q&A Series
TODD MERKOW
Founder & CEO, Valiant Sports Society
Former Sports Parent
The Valiant Parent shares our founder’s perspective from raising two daughters through competitive youth sports — addressing the questions, challenges and decisions sports families face along the way.
OUR FAMILY'S SPORTS JOURNEY
A PARENT'S PERSPECTIVE
As sports becomes more structured, it can be easy to lose sight of the freedom that drew children to play in the first place.
Playing like you’re 10 is an invitation to remember curiosity, joy, and the simple pleasure of moving with friends. It does not mean children cannot work hard or care deeply.
Parents can protect that spirit by leaving room for play and keeping the larger journey in perspective.
What sports parents should know
- Play can remain important even as competition increases.
- Freedom and joy support a child’s relationship with sport.
- Parents can help keep the long view when the environment feels intense.
YOUR HAPPY MOMENT
Find one way to make this week’s sports experience feel lighter, freer, or more fun for your child.
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The Valiant Parent reflects Todd Merkow’s personal perspective as a former sports parent, including lessons learned and things he might approach differently looking back. It is intended to help parents think, ask questions and find trusted information—not to provide medical or mental health advice. When a child’s physical or emotional well-being is a concern, parents should seek guidance from an appropriate qualified professional.
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