THE VALIANT PARENT
Valiant Sports Society Social Media Q&A Series
TODD MERKOW
Founder & CEO, Valiant Sports Society
Former Sports Parent
The Valiant Parent shares our founder’s perspective from raising two daughters through competitive youth sports — addressing the questions, challenges and decisions sports families face along the way.
OUR FAMILY'S SPORTS JOURNEY
A PARENT'S PERSPECTIVE
Enjoyment is not separate from growth. For many young athletes, it is part of what makes growth sustainable.
Parents cannot control every team, coach, or result. They can create a home environment where a child feels seen as more than a performance.
When a young athlete has room to be honest about what they enjoy, what feels hard, and what they want next, sports can remain their experience.
What sports parents should know
- Joy is a meaningful part of a sustainable sports journey.
- Support can focus on the child, not only the result.
- Honest conversations help parents understand what their child needs.
YOUR HAPPY MOMENT
After the next game or practice, ask what your child enjoyed instead of starting with how they performed.
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The Valiant Parent reflects Todd Merkow’s personal perspective as a former sports parent, including lessons learned and things he might approach differently looking back. It is intended to help parents think, ask questions and find trusted information—not to provide medical or mental health advice. When a child’s physical or emotional well-being is a concern, parents should seek guidance from an appropriate qualified professional.
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