A PARENT'S PERSPECTIVE
The sports culture at home is built in everyday moments: before practice, on the ride home, and when the game is not going the way anyone hoped.
A healthy home culture leaves room for the athlete to be a whole person. It does not make love, attention, or belonging depend on performance.
Parents can set a tone of curiosity and support while still helping their child learn from the experience.
What sports parents should know
- Home can be a place where athletes do not have to earn belonging.
- Communication matters before and after competition.
- Perspective helps a family keep sport in its proper place.
YOUR HAPPY MOMENT
Choose one post-game question that shows your child you care about their experience, not just the score.
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Disclaimer
The Valiant Parent reflects Todd Merkow’s personal perspective as a former sports parent, including lessons learned and things he might approach differently looking back. It is intended to help parents think, ask questions and find trusted information—not to provide medical or mental health advice. When a child’s physical or emotional well-being is a concern, parents should seek guidance from an appropriate qualified professional.
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