A PARENT'S PERSPECTIVE
Encouragement can feel different to every child. What sounds supportive to a parent may feel like added pressure to an athlete.
It helps to ask what support looks like from your child’s point of view. They may want a listener, a ride home without analysis, or simply someone in the stands.
The relationship is the foundation. When a child knows they are supported, feedback can become easier to hear when they ask for it.
What sports parents should know
- Support should reflect what the child finds helpful.
- Listening can be a powerful form of encouragement.
- Approval does not need to depend on performance.
YOUR HAPPY MOMENT
Ask your child, “What is the best way for me to support you at your next game?”
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Disclaimer
The Valiant Parent reflects Todd Merkow’s personal perspective as a former sports parent, including lessons learned and things he might approach differently looking back. It is intended to help parents think, ask questions and find trusted information—not to provide medical or mental health advice. When a child’s physical or emotional well-being is a concern, parents should seek guidance from an appropriate qualified professional.
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