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DO COLLEGE SPORTS HAVE TO MEAN NCAA ATHLETICS?

THE VALIANT PARENT

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TODD MERKOW

Founder & CEO, Valiant Sports Society

Former Sports Parent

The Valiant Parent shares our founder’s perspective from raising two daughters through competitive youth sports — addressing the questions, challenges and decisions sports families face along the way.

OUR FAMILY'S SPORTS JOURNEY

A PARENT'S PERSPECTIVE

The college sports conversation is often framed as a single destination. For families, it can be more helpful to begin with fit: the student, the school, the sport, and the experience they want to have.

NCAA athletics is one route, but it is not the only way to keep playing, competing, and building community in college. A label should not replace a thoughtful look at what the next chapter can hold.

The goal is not to chase a particular name. It is to help your child make a decision they can own.

What sports parents should know

  • College sports offers more than one meaningful path.
  • The best fit includes academics, athletics, and the student’s life beyond sport.
  • A family can ask questions and explore options without turning the decision into a race.

YOUR HAPPY MOMENT

Make room for a conversation about what your child wants from college—not only what level they hope to play.

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Disclaimer

The Valiant Parent reflects Todd Merkow’s personal perspective as a former sports parent, including lessons learned and things he might approach differently looking back. It is intended to help parents think, ask questions and find trusted information—not to provide medical or mental health advice. When a child’s physical or emotional well-being is a concern, parents should seek guidance from an appropriate qualified professional.

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